Enjoy
Rush. The decision to join a fraternity is a lifetime commitment.
Millions of men have gone through rush and have benefited from the advantages
of fraternity life. Although this sounds like a stressful time, it isn’t.
Make sure you have fun with rush. You will meet a lot of great guys from
many different fraternities who want to do the same thing as you do - meet
new people.
Set Your Own
Goals. Decide for yourself what you want out of a fraternity.
Why are you rushing? Do you want a chance to be a leader? Do you want to
establish a network of connections to be used once you graduate? Maybe
you just want to meet new friends, or perhaps you want to join a fraternity
just to enhance your college years? The best way to find a fraternity to
suit your needs is to find out what you what from the fraternity.
Explore Your
Options. Once
you have set your goals, you need to explore your options. Make sure to
visit as many houses as you can. By looking at all the different chapters,
you can get a better idea of what you want. Think of it as buying a car...
First you would test drive at least four or five different cars before
you started to…
...Narrow
Down Your Options. After carefully comparing your favorite choices,
you would finally make an educated decision as to which one you really
want. The same goes for rushing a house. Once you have visited as many
houses as you can, eliminate the ones you don’t want, and go back and carefully
inspect the ones you do want.
Spend Time
Getting To Know the Brothers. Once you have decided which house
you want, spend as much time with them as you can. Try to meet a majority
(if not all) of the brothers in a house, and go to as many of their events
that you can. This gives the brothers of the chapter ample time to get
you know you, and shows them that you are serious about wanting to be part
of their brotherhood.
The "Animal
House" Persona Does Not Apply to the Greeks Of Today. Fraternity
members have fought long and hard to shake the image that "Animal House"
created in the sixties and seventies. It just isn’t true. For example,
every fraternity at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln has agreed to the
guidelines of rushing as set by the Inter Fraternity Council. No drugs.
No alcohol. At first, this might seem strange, but that’s because fraternities
have changed dramatically since the sixties. We have much more to offer
than what was portrayed by "Animal House."
Learn From
Rush. If you decide not to join a fraternity, then at least
get as much out of rush as possible. Ask questions about professors you
have, or classes you might want to take. Have Fun! Last but not least,
meet new friends that you wouldn’t normally get a chance to meet.